Never stoop to others' level

Never stoop to the level of people who are mean and unkind.

Instead, be the better person. Exhibit the kind of behavior they ought to emulate. Be a role model.

Never give these people the satisfaction of behaving just like them. Don't lash out and seek out revenge, which is precisely the reaction they're trying to elicit in you.

Remember, misery loves company, so they'll strike at nothing to have their bad mood/attitude rub off on you.

Keep smiling. Keep enjoying your life. Show them that their rotten ways will never rain on your parade. Hopefully, they'll soon come to their senses and realize how childish they're being.

And do not blame yourself for others' behavior. It's their problem, not yours. Chances are, they are battling deep-seated feelings of insecurity and trying to take it out on others.

When someone's self-esteem is in the gutter, it can drive them to do and say things they later come to regret.

Try to remain calm and strong in the face of such hostility. Confidence is quiet; insecurity is loud. And if walking away is the only way to extricate yourself from the negativity, do it!

Soar, don't stoop. Rise above difficult people, don't bring yourself down to their level. Never allow such individuals to seize control of your happiness.

Life is too short to be miserable all the time. Never compromise your principles for anyone. Being classy never goes out style. Taking the high road is always the best way to go.

If people are trying to bring you down, that can only mean one thing -- you are above them!

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