It sure is. We all miss the butterflies in our stomach -- the sheer excitement of having someone new in our life. Maybe your partner did little things that filled you with immense joy, like deliver flowers to your job or leave love notes in your wallet. Once the relationship begins to mature, these things tend to happen less often. As you transition from happy couple to married couple to parents, it becomes less about passionate love and more about companionship. Going from seeing each other once or twice a week to living with one another changes the dynamics of a relationship tremendously. Whereas before you waited for your weekly date with bated breath, now you've fallen into a routine of seeing your partner every day. Sometimes I miss the early days in my relationship, when I looked forward to seeing my now-wife with great anticipation. Everything felt new and exciting. We were getting to know each other. Our future together seemed promising. Now that we've been ...

There's nothing like spending lots of quality time with your partner. But how much time is too much? How to Understand People is here to answer that question. Though being attached at the hip may sound like it can be beneficial to the relationship, this couldn't be further from the truth. Couples who spend inordinate amounts of time together are more likely to argue and go through bouts of boredom. The thing is that when you're around the same person all day, you're likely to get stuck in a routine; day in and day out, you hit up the same restaurants and shops, watch the same shows, and so on. It's always good to keep the element of surprise alive and well in a relationship. Every once in a while, you should aim to inject the relationship with a healthy dose of spontaneity. Guys, surprise your lady by taking her to a new restaurant on the other side of town, or by planning a weekend getaway to a beautiful hotspot your wife occasionally brings up in conversati...

Judging from what people seeking my advice tell me, it seems relationships fall apart for three key reasons: 1. Lack of trust: Whether because of lying or cheating, it isn't always easy to restore trust once it's been compromised. When it gets to the point where you simply can't confide in the other person, the relationship is doomed to fail. 2. Lack of communication: Problems in the relationship that stem from a lack of trust (see #1) can sometimes be resolved when people put their feelings on the table and are open to compromise. But when even open communication isn't feasible, it signals that the relationship may be on its last legs. 3. Getting too lazy and comfortable: Once we've been with someone for a long time, it's normal to become complacent in the relationship. Gone are the days when you worked on your physique to impress your partner and surprised her with flowers and candlelight dinners. In order to keep the relationship from stagnating, it...