The way to truly appreciate the things and people in your life is to imagine yourself without them. Put yourself (mentally) in a position of losing something or someone dear to you, and you'll quickly assign said object more value. Picture yourself without one or all of these: Your ability to see, hear, speak, or walk Your partner, parent, or close friend A pet you've had in the family for several years Your home or car Many people fail to consider that there are those who would give anything to have what they take for granted. They're instead focused solely on what they don't have, whether it's a better car or a bigger house. Unfortunately, it hits people many of us once it's too late -- once a loved one dies or another unexpected event transpires. Several people have told me that such an exercise really puts things in perspective and makes them less likely to take their blessings for granted in the future. I invite you to try it out and discuss ...

If you could have a bigger version of something you currently have, what would it be? Would you opt for: A bigger bank account A bigger brain A bigger house A bigger butt or breasts A wider circle of friends A bigger ego Anything not listed here? I'm guessing most people would opt for the bigger bank account or house. As I've said here before, money and material possessions make you happier only up to a certain point.  I'm content with my life as it is now. I feel blessed to have a good job, loving wife, and great friends and family. I am also grateful for this blog and all the terrific people I've met on it. I feel the best moments and experiences in life are those money can't buy.  What about you?