What is the main reason why women decide to have kids? (1) Instinct:  They have a biological imperative to do so, i.e., they want to know what it's like to carry the baby in their womb. (2) Upbringing:  They were taught that every woman should have kids, and there's no reason to question that. (3) Societal pressure:  They feel pressure from society to join the ranks of the mothers of the world. While I think the first reason holds the most weight, the two reasons that follow also play a role in a woman's urge to have kids. Unfortunately, many women who have opted not to have are kids are derided by coworkers, friends, and even family members. It seems many would rather have a child -- even if they're not ready for the kind of responsibility that motherhood entails -- than have to stand up to these individuals and defend their position. This is a grave mistake far too many women make. I understand many women find themselves racing against a biological clock...