Most people are okay with doing #1 in public bathrooms, whether at work or in a restaurant. But many people are sheepish about doing #2 anywhere other than home. When I have to go potty, I go, no matter where I'm at. The only times I might be reluctant to take a #2 in a public restroom are when: There are too many people in the bathroom (whether all stalls are occupied or not) The stalls and toilets are poorly maintained (e.g. someone who used it before me didn't flush, leaving their excrement visible) There is no toilet paper in sight Doctors say it's a bad idea to hold the urge in until you get home. If anything, you could to a nearby McDonald's and use their restroom during your lunch break. If the urge strikes even sooner, tell your boss you'd like to run a quick errand, or take your lunch earlier. Many people are embarrassed to have a bowel movement in a public bathroom for fear that unpleasant smells or sounds emanating from the stall will be det...

Some couples are attached at the hip and thus are comfortable doing anything and everything in front of each other. Other pairs, however, set clear boundaries: If it's something they wouldn't do in front of their parents or friends, then it is off limits. Period. Here are a couple of examples of things people might be embarrassed to do in front of their partners: Pass gas Vomit Use the restroom (#1 and/or #2) Change pads/tampons Weigh themselves I'm all for doing as much together as possible, but there should be dividing lines. For example, does your partner really have to see you use the restroom? Just because you love each other doesn't mean you have to witness each other do everything. At the end of the day, we should still strive to maintain some degree of autonomy.  I would understand being present while your partner, say, vomits or has a bowel movement if it involves some health issue he or she needs help with. But if that isn't the case, I t...