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Human beings are complex creatures, and it always helps to have a guide handy for dissecting how and why they behave the way they do. To that end, this site provides handy tips to guide you in different aspects of your life -- from relationships and managing money to your career. And on those tough days where nothing seems to go right, my motivational posts are sure to put you in a better mood.

Whether you're trying to make sense of the mixed signals your date is giving you, understand why your boss doesn't seem to give you the recognition you deserve at work, or analyze why your friend doesn't seem to be putting effort into your friendship, you'll find helpful advice at How to Understand People that will put you one step closer to a happier life.

Jeff Martinez is a copywriter, editor, and proofreader by trade. He loves reading and writing about everything from psychology, history, and consumer behavior to relationships, personality, architecture, and real estate. 

Should you have any questions, comments, or suggestions, or if you're ever in need of advice, please feel to contact me at JeffM8519@aol.com.

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