They try to say the right things to win others' approval. They never admit they're wrong. Some even go so far as to change something about themselves just to appease a friend, love interest, or relative.
In other words, preserving their image trumps qualities like sincerity and integrity.
They try to live the kind of life society expects them to have, even though deep down it isn't the one they desire. They're lying to others -- and themselves.
Moreover, they're willing to fake anything and everything about themselves just to appear more driven, more successful, more likable, or whatever it is they're aiming for.
At the end of the day, none of us are perfect. We become wiser people through our experiences, which often include making mistakes we learn from and, hopefully, never repeat. If one fails to acknowledge that he or she makes missteps (as we all do), it speaks volumes about their character.
There will always be someone who disagrees with or dislikes you -- an individual who takes issue with the things you say, the way you dress, the hobbies you hold dear. You can't please everyone, no matter how hard you try.
That being said, it's no cliche that honesty is the best policy. When you try to be someone you're not just meet social expectations, you come off as fake and disingenuous.
I'd rather be friends with sincere and flawed individuals than ones who walk around feigning that their lives -- or they themselves -- are perfect.
In fact, steering clear of people who never demonstrate a smidgen of humility is probably a good idea.
Among the most admirable people in the world are those who know they probably won't be liked by everyone they come across, but they still choose to remain true to themselves.
Only by being who you are can you become better than how you are. Don't put on masks. Let the real you always shine through.
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