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Women love when men do THIS

Women, especially very attractive ones who have countless guys chasing after them, can't help but feel totally attracted to men who challenge them.

Now, a distinction should be made between challenging women and playing games with them.

If not returning texts and trying to make the woman jealous is his idea of challenging her, he's in for a rude awakening.

As surprising as it may seem to some men, women don't want to feel or be told they're right all the time. They want a man to stand up for what he believes in, even if it ruffles her feathers and runs contrary to her longstanding beliefs or opinions.

Why?

Because it betrays a sense of confidence, which women find irresistible.

It conveys that whether or not she agrees with him, he's going to speak his mind -- in a firm if diplomatic manner.

Many men avoid doing this for fear that she'll get upset and lose interest. But this couldn't be farther from the truth.

The last thing a woman wants -- even if she might not say so -- is for a man to compromise his principles for her. Not only does it signal that she's in full control (a position most women would be glad to turn down), but it shows that he's needy and seeking her approval. Women aren't attracted to such obsequiousness.

At the end of the day, women want a mixed bag of sorts -- someone who's charming, intelligent, respectful, and hard-working. At the same time, he should be firm in his convictions. If she's out of line, she expects him to put her in her place.

Once she realizes she can get away with anything she wants -- that he doesn't challenge her in any way -- her respect for and attraction toward him will hit the floor.

Ladies, do you agree?  How highly do you value a confident man who challenges you?
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