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Most men prefer women with this...

Earlier today, I published a post on something most women seem to prefer for men have (or, to be more clear, grow). If you haven't read it, you can access the post by clicking here: Most women seem to prefer men with this...

In that post, I alluded to what many men -- including myself -- say makes a woman more feminine and thus more desirable: Long hair.

I respect women's reasons for keeping their hair short (too hot outside, less maintenance), but I'll be totally frank: those with really short hair -- the kind that hardly touches the ears, if that -- have never really tickled my fancy.

I realize that men have different taste, and women have every right to keep their hair at whatever length they wish.

Personally, though, there's nothing sexier than a woman with long hair. I feel it not only makes one look more feminine, but gives her more character as well. Longer hair is also easier to caress and play with.

My definition of "long" would probably be hair that reaches or passes the shoulders. I don't care whether it's straight or curly, though my preference is that she alternate.

And I'm not the only one who thinks this way. All of my friends -- as well as a few male co-workers I've asked -- all find women with long hair to be more attractive.

Ladies, are you dating or married to someone who's voiced that he clearly prefers that you keep your hair long? How do you feel about that?

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Priscilla King said…
My husband seemed to enjoy trimming my hair. (He was a hand person. He also had a mental image, formed early in life, of what was "pretty," and it included short--not super-short, over the ears but up off the neck--dark hair.)

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