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It isn't always easy to believe in ourselves. We can hit any number of roadblocks in life, often through no fault of our own, whether it's not meeting our dietary goals or landing that book contract as quickly as we like. 

But as cliche as it sounds, patience and persistence are integral. If you don't feel deep down that you have what it takes to make it happen, you won't. 

When you believe in yourself, everything the naysayers have told you -- that you can't do this, that you can't achieve that -- fades into oblivion. 

When you believe in yourself, self-doubt gives way to self-confidence, propelling you to accomplish goals you never thought possible.

When you believe in yourself, you stop telling yourself that every one except you is capable. You begin to accept that you're just as equipped -- if not more so -- to succeed. 

When you believe in yourself, you cease proffering excuses for why you can't do something. You stop saying "I'll try." You stop leaving it for tomorrow. Instead, you recognize that one step forward is a step closer to reaching the finish line. 

When you believe in yourself, you see challenges not as setbacks, but as opportunities for growth. You accept that success entails temporary growing pains. 

When you believe in yourself, you recognize that you're not perfect. You're going to make mistakes along the way. But you see it as no reason to abandon your goals. Rather than letting disappointments tear you down, they fuel you to soldier on. They lead you to better reorient yourself -- whether by changing up your strategy or investing in more resources. 

Moral of the story? Believing in yourself can pay enormous dividends --  not only when it comes to self-motivation, but your mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. 

If there's a will, there's a way. But you have to be your biggest booster, your most ardent supporter. 

If you can think it -- if you can dream it -- you can achieve anything. The sky's the limit. BELIEVE IN YOU! 

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