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A message for anyone who's struggling...

Whether you're going through a tough time because you're short on cash, unable to find love, or having marital problems, I have a message for you:

Things will eventually work out.

That may strike you as impossible at this juncture, but over time, things will fall in place. It may not happen on your timetable, but it will occur nonetheless.

This is only a passing storm, a temporary blip, a small fork in the road.

With hard work, gumption, an irrepressible drive, and support from friends (including me and others on this blog), you'll land back on your feet before you know it.

Don't underestimate your will and capacity to overcome even the most daunting obstacles. You can achieve anything you set your heart and mind to. As someone anonymous once put it, "A river cuts through a rock, not because of its power, but its persistence."

Pray, put in a vigorous workout at the gym, treat yourself a hearty meal -- do whatever it takes to relax and blow off some steam.

Just don't -- I repeat -- don't lose hope. Don't stop believing in the promise of a better day. Don't let negativity get the best of you.

If you ever need advice, I'm here for you. Wonderful things lie ahead so long as you keep your head up and your heart open to new possibilities.

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