Quote of the Day -- What Do You Think?

Today's quote of the day comes from Thomas Jefferson (1743-1826). Not only was he was the third president of the United States, but the revered Founding Father also wrote the Declaration of Independence, founded the University of Virginia, and pulled off the Louisiana Purchase, among other notable accomplishments.

"It is neither wealth nor splendor; but tranquility and occupation which give you happiness." - Thomas Jefferson

I think what Thomas Jefferson was trying to say in a nutshell is that it's the simple things in life that truly hold value and brings us true joy. Reading a great book, taking a tranquil walk around the park, connecting with nature, petting your cat -- it's these simple moments that makes us the happiest, yet we often take them for granted.

Instead, we become overly focused on acquiring more and more material possessions, being promoted into jobs that require longer hours and thus more time away from our families, and so on.

I think the world has become so fast-paced and technologically advanced that we fail to appreciate the little things our ancestors themselves probably viewed as enjoyable, like telling stories by the fireplace, reading books to their kids, etc. It's all about instant gratification these days -- and whatever is in style today may become outdated tomorrow.

We should make the effort -- at least every once in a while -- to sit back and enjoy life's little pleasures. Put down the cell phone and turn the TV off. Take a walk and explore nature, read an enthralling book, or just catch up with a good friend over dinner.

We make life more complicated than it should be.

Do you agree?

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