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Which 2 qualities do women desire most in men

And no, a strong sex drive and big muscles didn't quite make the cut.

I know there are several contenders for the top 2 spots, but I would say the two qualities women desire most in men are honesty and self-confidence. I thought about sense of humor, but not every single woman necessarily seeks a man who can make her laugh. That would probably occupy 4th or 5th place on the list.

However, every woman I've talked to says a man HAS to be sincere -- no ifs or buts about it. If she can't trust the guy, there's no way that a relationship could ever be possible with that person. With stories of infidelity dominating the tabloids and the divorce rate skyrocketing, it's no wonder that women are on high alert.

Then there's self-confidence. Women desire men who are sure of themselves. Now, they don't have to be self-confident when it comes to every itty bitty thing they do (no one's perfect), but they should show passion and a drive to excel at something, whether it be their job, hobbies, etc.

Women don't like men who panic, buckle under pressure, and throw in the towel at the first sign of hardship. They want someone who, when the going gets tough, will remain calm and collected and reassure them that everything will be fine. But it's important not to cross the fine line between self-confidence and downright arrogance.

So there you have it, guys. Women desire honesty and self-confidence above all else. If you're looking for a relationship but lacking any of these sought-after traits, you'd be wise to change. I guarantee your prospects will improve dramatically.

Ladies: Do you agree?


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