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Welcome to Relationship Advice and Relationship Tips

Welcome to my new blog -- Relationship Advice and Relationship Tips!

My name is Jeff Martinez and I'm excited about the opportunity to share with you my insights into the fascinating world of relationship psychology. I graduated with a degree in psychology and have always been ferociously passionate about the human mind. To me, there's nothing quite as fascinating as studying how we think -- why we gravitate toward certain people and not others, how our personalities dictate how we react to situations, why our behavior changes based on context and myriad other factors, and so on.

As you'll note from the title of the blog, I aim to make this site a rich repository of content that focuses primarily on useful relationship tips and relationship advice. When I say relationships, I'm referring to: 
  • Relationships with your partner or spouse
  • Relationships with your co-workers
  • Relationships with your friends
  • Relationships with acquaintances
  • Your relationship with yourself
If you love psychology (as I do!), you'll find this blog to be a welcome treat, as I will touch upon a wide spectrum of subjects that delve into human behavior. For example, I will shed light on:
  • The ways perception trumps reality in life
  • The notion of a self-concept and why it's important
  • Reasons why other people lie, cheat, and exhibit jealousy toward us
  • Whether money and material possessions truly bring more happiness
  • The ups and downs in marriages and relationships -- and how to navigate them
  • Why better looking generally have it better in life
As you can see, these are compelling subjects all of take a great interest in since we can relate to them. My hope is that you will take away something from my blog that you can apply to your own life. 

Again, welcome to Relationship Advice, Relationship Counseling, Relationship Tips. 

Enjoy!

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