Skip to main content

Relationship with Money: Live below your means

As tempting as it may be for us as consumers to splurge on items we have little need for, we must do our best to exercise self-control.

How many times have you spent well over $100 on a steak dinner at a fancy restaurant like Morton's and later wished you had just gone to Outback?

How many times have you purchased an expensive shirt solely on the basis of the brand and later wished you had gotten something more affordable at Old Navy?

I'm guilty of this myself. Now, I'm not saying we should never treat ourselves to something a little more expensive. It's when you find yourself doing this often -- and dipping more and more into your savings -- that it becomes a problem.

You should always make sure that your reserve is ample enough to cover bills and leave you with money for a rainy day. If savings begin to run low, necessitating the need to reach for your credit card, it should prompt you to put the brakes and reevaluate your spending habits.

Let's not forget that it was overindulging and living beyond our means that brought on the Great Recession of 2008.

Aim to be a savvy consumer and take advantage of coupons, sales, discounts, and other ways to keep your wallet fuller. Alternate trips to the restaurant with eating at home -- another effective way to bring down costs. If you can ride to the park in your bike rather than driving your car, you'll save on gas.

As you can see, we can all take small steps that will save us a lot of money in the long run.



Comments

Popular posts from this blog

No response from someone IS a response

Make no mistake about it: When you don't get a response from someone -- whether they fail to answer your texts or return your phone calls -- it is  still a response, and a powerful one at that. When a person fails to respond, it's a direct reflection of their interest -- or lack thereof -- in the relationship. Few things are more aggravating than having to hound a partner, friend, or relative for some sort of reply after we've reached out to them. Yes, we get busy from time to time, but that doesn't give anyone the right to leave the other person hanging. A terse text with something like "Been busy, will reach out soon" doesn't say much, but at least it shows some effort to bring the other person up to speed on why they've fallen off the radar. Failing to provide a response for weeks -- if not months -- communicates that you are just not a priority, and that you'll have to wait your turn to get this individual's attention. This is n...

Do you have Isolophilia? Find out...

You're probably asking yourself, "What in the world does Isolophilia mean?" It sounds like it would be something negative, doesn't it?  After all, words that end in "philia" (e.g., pedophilia) tend to involve things we want nothing to do with. But Isolophilia isn't something all people deplore. In fact, introverts like me welcome it. Put simply, Isolophilia is defined as having a strong affinity for solitude. It describes a person who relishes being alone. While extroverts can only take so much solitude, we introverts find that it rejuvenates us. In order to recharge our batteries, we need to retreat to a quiet environment where we we're left alone to rest and/or gather our thoughts. Extroverts, on the other hand, become bored and drained when they're alone for a lengthy period of time. Social interaction is the fuel that drives them. So while an extrovert would probably do anything to avoid feelings of Isolophilia in most cases, an...

This will spell the end of your relationship

When asked to think about the most common culprits for a relationship's going south, most people will point to cheating, complacency, and taking one's partner for granted. While these are all valid -- and documented in various posts on this blog -- there are certain habits on the part of partners that may not kill the relationship right away, but cause it to erode more gradually.  Among the most egregious of these is expecting your significant other to be perfect. They pick at your follies any chance they get. Nothing you do is ever good enough. In fact, you will never measure up to an ex, neighbor, or accomplished co-worker.  Perhaps this all sounds a bit familiar.  When you feel as though you're constantly being put under the microscope, it can inflict lasting damage on the relationship and your self-esteem. You're walking on eggshells all the time, praying you don't say or do something that's going to trigger your partner. This is no way to live, let alone ca...