Ready for inspiration? Here's the Quote of the Day

"The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain." - Dolly Parton

What Dolly is essentially saying is that nothing in life worth having comes easily.

You have to work for it, and that often includes having to put up with others' BS for a while.

For example, you've had it up to here with your boss's toxic ways and have set a goal of bolting to another employer before year's end.

However, to realize this plan, you'll have to continue enduring his nasty tantrums -- if you haven't already called him out on such behavior -- until you find a new job, as the food has to be put on the table and the rent isn't going to pay itself.

Or perhaps you're reeling from the fallout of a terrible breakup. Life may seem bleak today -- especially after having to pull the plug on a relationship you once envisioned lasting your whole life.

But rest assured that the day you find yourself with someone far better than your ex, you'll see this breakup as a blessing in disguise.

Just remember: The most beautiful days often follow the worst storms. And a rainbow -- that multi-colored arc that piques our curiosity when we're lucky enough to catch a glimpse of one stretching across the majestic sky -- is often the first sign that the worst is over.

Once the storm has passed, the sun (which, metaphorically speaking, can be your own tenacious drive) will help you dry off, and you'll emerge with newfound wisdom and vitality.

Adversity, in the end, is only a springboard to greater things.

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