When people say you can't do something...

We all have dreams that may seem like a longshot to other people, whether it be starting a business, publishing a book, or traveling the world.

But should others' opinions really get in the way of our hopes and aspirations? Absolutely not!

When people doubt you and go as far as to say you won't achieve something, take the utmost pleasure in trying to prove them wrong.

Don't allow their skepticism to make you question your abilities; instead, let it fuel your passion and drive even further.

As long as we believe in ourselves, work tirelessly, and continue to fight for what we want despite the odds being stacked against us, we have a shot.

In life, we won't really know unless we try. And even if it turns out that we come up a bit short, it doesn't mean we've failed. It just means life has different -- and better -- plans in store.

There will always be those who dismiss our plans as mere pipe dreams. Don't listen to these folks, for they're likely projecting onto you the doubts they harbor of their own ability to achieve such a feat.

Can you imagine all those who doubted Michael Jordan when he set out to become the best basketball player in the world? How about all those who laughed at Michael Jackson when he confessed as a kid to dreaming of becoming a pop superstar?

The same goes for all those who have gone on to become president of the U.S., CEOs of Fortune 500 companies, and scientists behind some of the most revolutionary breakthroughs the world has ever seen.

Sometimes the only one who believes in us and in all we're capable of achieving is ourselves. Never be afraid to tread that road alone if you're unable to garner others' support. You are your single biggest ally on the path toward life fulfillment.

People won't always understand our motivations for doing certain things, but we all aspire to accomplish different goals. It's what makes us unique, and never should we give up our individuality for anyone.

So the next time someone seems incredulous at your ability to fulfill a dream, don't shrink from your goals. Use their objections to empower you. More important than proving them wrong, though, is taking pride in something you worked so hard to achieve.

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