We're instead endowed with the power to let go -- of people and things which bring us harm or fail to enrich our lives in meaningful ways.
Many of us assume that we need to hold on to/perpetuate toxic relationships because we've known the people for a long time or we fear that others will not accept us as they did.
Once a person becomes a mental or emotional burden in your life, that's when you know you're better of letting go. And waiting around for them to change is usually an exercise in futility. People hardly ever do.
Additionally, once a job starts to suck you dry -- adversely affecting your physical and mental health -- that's a clear sign it's time to start looking for something else. No job is worth sacrificing your well-being for.
Few people realize how powerful the ability to let go really is. Once we do, we feel a tremendous load has been lifted off our shoulders. At that defining moment, we are once again in control of our lives rather than the other way around.
Unfortunately, some of us give others too much control over us. We waste time and energy wondering why their interest in the relationship has seemingly fallen off a cliff. We even blame ourselves despite all evidence pointing to the other person being less invested.
I'm all for giving others the benefit of the doubt in certain situations, but sometimes one has to open their eyes to reality. If your life would be more fulfilling without a certain person in your life, it's time to reassess whether they should be in your life at all.
Don't be dragged down by individuals who fail to see your worth. Don't allow yourself to be taken for granted. Let them go and dedicate your time to those who see you as an enhancement to their lives like they are to yours.
Don't be afraid to summon the power to let go. In the end, it can make you far happier than you ever imagined.
Enjoy the sweet taste of freedom!
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