This Day in History: Fun Fact

On this day in 1777, Brigadier General George Clinton was elected as the first governor of the independent state of New York. Clinton would go on to become New York’s longest-serving governor, as well as the longest-serving governor in the United States. He held the post until 1795, and again from 1801 to 1804. In 1805, he was elected vice president of the United States, a position he maintained under Presidents Thomas Jefferson and James Madison, until his death in 1812.

There's no question that politics ran in Clinton's family. His father, Charles, immigrated to New York from Ireland and served in the New York colonial assembly. His brother, James, served as a major general during the Revolutionary War. In addition, James’ son, DeWitt Clinton, would follow in his uncle’s footsteps and serve as the governor of New York from 1817 to 1823.

Clinton had a close friendship with George Washington, and his hatred of New York Tories wasn't lost on anyone. In fact, as governor, he tried to keep the public’s tax burden low by confiscating and selling land belonging to Tories to maintain state coffers.

Clinton went on to represent New York in the Continental Congress and voted in favor of the Declaration of Independence, but was not present to sign the document because he had already left to serve General Washington on the battlefield. Though Clinton refused to espouse the U.S. Constitution until the Bill of Rights was added to the document, he remained a steadfast supporter of the new federal government and threw a celebratory feast for President Washington after riding with him to his first inauguration on April 30, 1789.

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