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THIS awaits us all in the New Year!

Happiness -- that's what!

And let's add love, health, peace, and a sense of accomplishment from meeting one or more goals!

I don't know about you, but I get the feeling it's going to be a fantastic year for all of us.

Having that materialize starts with keeping a positive mindset. The more you believe that great things are in store, the more likely that is to come to fruition.

Whether you aim to lose weight, start a family, or get a new job, I wish you only the best in achieving your goals. If you ever need advice or encouragement, please feel free to reach out to me. Or, you can ask questions of other fellow readers. Without a doubt, every visitor to the blog is always willing to lend a helping hand.

I want to thank each and every one of you who's read and/or commented on my posts for your valuable contributions to this blog. Thanks to your unending support, the site garnered a record number of views and comments this year. It's your insightful comments and suggestions that fuel my passion for maintaining the blog, and you can rest assured that I'll be delivering even more content in 2017 than I did this year!

I look forward to many more insightful conversations with all of you on all the compelling topics covered, from relationships and money to personality psychology and job-hunting.

Cheers to many wonderful things for all in 2017. Happy New Year from my family to yours!

Sincerely,

How to Understand People

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