Happy Mother's Day, moms!

As many of you have probably realized, I have a predominantly female readership on this blog, and what a treat that is!

As a man, I love getting a female's perspective on the many topics covered on this site, from relationships and sex to personality and spending habits.

I have to say -- most men aren't like me. I wish I could say there were more guys out there as passionate about human behavior as I am, but most would rather be playing sports or getting drunk. That's the truth.

I've found that women are far more intuitive and in sync with their emotions. They not only understand themselves better than men do, but they are masters at dissecting the opposite sex. Men certainly have a lot to learn from them, myself included.

For those of you here who are moms, I'd like to wish you a Happy Mother's Day filled with love, happiness, and endless smiles. Thank you for everything you have done and continue to do for your offspring!

Again, whether you have kids or not, your input on this blog is highly valued and appreciated. Thanks for reading and/or commenting on my posts. I look forward to submitting countless more in the months and years to come.

Regards,
Jeff

P.S. To read previous posts, click here: How to Understand People

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