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Are women as openly sexual as men? Find out...

For as long as I can remember, men have gotten a bad rep for being perverts. But can women be as perverted as men?

The answer obviously depends on the person in question but, in general, women can be just as perverted -- if not more so -- than men.

The primary difference between men and women in this regard, however, is that women are subtle about it while men are highly vocal.

How often have you heard a group of women engage in risque talk openly in public? As a guy, I have yet to come across women doing this.

And while I often see men checking out women all the time, I hardly ever catch women doing the same.

Women are certainly masters in the art of subtlety. I'm assuming it's something they've honed for fear of being called sluts. Society seems to frown upon women who are too sexually forward. And the last thing they want people of the opposite sex -- and of the same sex, for that matter -- to think is that they're "easy."

Men, on the other hand, pat each other on the back for "scoring" -- and they don't care at all about doing it out in the open. The busier a man's sexual life, the more he gets praised for it. The busier a woman's sexual life, the more she gets scolded for it.

It's a double standard that is far from seeing its last days, unfortunately. The women sleeping with these men are the ones sullying the reputation of the rest. The only reason men can boast of sleeping with countless women is because there are women out there who throw themselves at them and allow them to do so.

My advice to all you ladies: Don't let these sleazy men ensnare you. You can do so much better!

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