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Do women care how well endowed men are?

Based on what I've heard -- and a few studies support this -- women generally don't care about how well endowed their partners are.

To give you an apt metaphor, instead of what's under the hood, women are more interested in how well the car runs.

So if size really doesn't matter, why do so many men assume that women desire a man with a big package?

Men, being the visual creatures that we are, typically have no qualms about voicing their preference for women with bigger "assets" -- whether they be bigger breasts or butts. Is it any wonder that so many women invest in plastic surgery?

However, I seldom see or hear women admitting to wanting a man with a bigger penis. Many men, though, simply assume that the larger their member, the better their prospects in the bedroom.

It's a safe bet that if a man has a small penis but can use it in nifty ways to get his partner to achieve one or more orgasms, she will easily look past the size issue.

It all goes back to the different ways in which men and women get turned on. Men need only see a woman naked to want to engage in under-the-sheets fun, while women require foreplay to get them going. (Think massages and kissing.)

In other words, if men think that their having a big penis is the magical key to scoring, they better think again. In a woman's book, size is no substitute for quality.

What do you think, ladies? Does the fact a man is well endowed make you more attracted to him?





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