How to understand people: Selfish people

Selfish people are only out for themselves -- and boy, are they aplenty out there. We know at least one or two people-- whether at school, work, or even in our family -- who only seem to remember we exist when they're in need of a favor from us.

Unfortunately, even those we consider close friends can at times show streaks of selfishness. I seldom receive calls from close friends without their squeezing in a small request at some point in the conversation. It's possible we may find ourselves doing the same on occasion.

We mustn't forget that friendships and relationships are a two-way street. People sometimes get so caught up in their own lives that they never give someone a call for purely unselfish reasons -- just to say hi and see how she's doing.

If you become just a means to an end in someone's life, a serious conversation with the person is in order. If, after venting your frustrations, the behavior persists, you ought to think very strongly about severing ties.

Friends and family shouldn't only spring to mind when you need, say, help with a spare time or a loan to buy a new fridge. People who are unceasingly selfish get under my skin completely and really serve no purpose in my life.

Do you feel similarly about selfish people?

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