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Women care just as much about looks as men do

Studies show that although men often get a bad rap for being "too hung up on looks," women are just as likely to cite physical attraction as a key reason for having gravitated to their respective partners.

I always thought that women were more drawn to personality-centric attributes -- like kindness and a sense of humor -- rather than pretty eyes and a six pack.

Apparently, women value the physical just as much as their male counterparts do, which is a surprising finding to say the least.

What I have noticed, however, is that men are considerably more vocal -- and obvious -- about what they find physically attractive in someone of the opposite sex.

We've all seen or met at least a few couple: Men who blatantly size up an attractive woman at the grocery store or mall. Some unabashedly whistle or throw kisses at these women.

Have you ever seen a woman display such behavior when checking out a guy? Me neither. They're much more apt to give one or two looks, but in a very subtle way.

In this society, women just aren't as sexually forward as men, for fear of being labeled "easy" or "slutty." Still, it's interesting to note that they may actually find a man's body as visually enticing as men regard that of women.


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